{"id":123,"date":"2026-03-23T11:49:18","date_gmt":"2026-03-23T16:49:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/todaygodtaughtme.org\/?p=123"},"modified":"2026-03-23T11:49:18","modified_gmt":"2026-03-23T16:49:18","slug":"march-23-2026-1158-am","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/todaygodtaughtme.org\/?p=123","title":{"rendered":"March 23, 2026, 11:58 AM"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><em>God:<\/em> You feel <em>embarrassed<\/em>. If I correct you, you imagine a little red pen making a little red checkmark beside whatever you said, whatever you thought, <em>whatever you believed<\/em>, with an associated \u201c-1\u201d, \u201c-2\u201d, or whatever other value deducting points from your total grade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The reality is, in school, <em>that was the method<\/em>. And it made sense there: <em>they wanted a method to measure progress<\/em>. And accuracy in understanding <em>is one way to measure<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>But I don\u2019t measure progress that way<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I know you have accepted my payment for your sin. <em>But you have not accepted my grace <strong>for your understanding<\/strong><\/em>. You still feel embarrassed for error. Why should you be embarrassed when the <em>creator of the universe<\/em> corrects?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you know how I measure <em>progress<\/em>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2026I don\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Joshua:<\/em> You don\u2019t? Then how can you <em>trust me?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>God:<\/em> (starts laughing) Joshua, I want you to listen very closely. <em>I make sure you are prepared<\/em>. But my goal isn\u2019t to give you a grade\u2014<em>it\u2019s to get you <strong>ready<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In a test, your school system made the goal <em>to get a good grade<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In our walk together, my teaching is here <em>to get you <strong>ready<\/strong><\/em>. You don\u2019t necessarily know what for. You don\u2019t necessarily know <em>how to measure<\/em>. But <em>I weigh the heart<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the school system, <em>a jerk may pass<\/em>. In mine, <em>a person with no knowledge but much faith will far surpass someone who condescends others and grasps great understanding<\/em>. The school system does not measure <em>love<\/em>, but <em>without love, <strong>you are nothing<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You have love. <em>It\u2019s my love working in you<\/em>. The same is true for all my children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My measurement is not human measurement. <em>When I correct you, <strong>that is not disqualification<\/strong><\/em>. Correction in your school meant <em>disqualification<\/em>. A little\u2014<em>you were okay<\/em>. A <em>lot<\/em>\u2014<em>you might not pass the grade<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Correction proves you are my son. Do you know what qualifies you? <em>My work<\/em>. Do you know what often accompanies my work? <em>Correction<\/em>. Not to shame. <em>To sharpen<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is much more fun to use a computer when you understand how it works. <em>It is much more fun to live life when you have healthy mindsets<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(My phone rings for a text message; I check it, reply that it\u2019s a wrong number, and get a popup notification that it\u2019s likely spam)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>God:<\/em> \u2026What did you just get distracted by?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Joshua:<\/em> My phone had just gone off. Turns out it was a spam text, asking \u201cWhat time will you arrive?\u201d \u2026and now I\u2019m realizing that was probably something you let happen to make a point right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>God:<\/em> (nods) You will often have <em>spam messages<\/em>, saying \u201cWhat time will you arrive?\u201d \u201cWhen will you mature?\u201d \u201cWill you ever graduate?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>They are <strong>spam<\/strong><\/em>. I never ask my children \u201cWhen will you heal?\u201d \u201cWhen will you become qualified?\u201d I may ask <em>when we can start<\/em>. But I never place the expectation on you <em>that you should be able to walk forward <strong>alone<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The reality is, <em>I prepare you<\/em>. So someone else started their ministry before you did. <em>What is that to you?<\/em> You, <em>follow me<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This isn\u2019t meant to be a scary trail. <em>\u201cYour rod and your staff, <strong>they comfort me<\/strong><\/em>\u201d. To be clear: <em>you are not bad if my rod and staff don\u2019t comfort you<\/em>. That is a sign <em>you need comfort<\/em>. When you start seeing the comfort in my correction, <em>it will stop being <strong>scary<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You feel bad <em>admitting you needed my correction<\/em>. This is because <em>you assume other Christians have it more together<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>What is that to you?<\/em> You, <em>follow me<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Grades let you <em>compare your progress with other students<\/em>. But if everyone\u2019s walk is different, <em>what is that to you?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t take comfort in the thought that maybe <em>you\u2019re actually farther ahead than other believers.<\/em> That would make <em>pride<\/em> your comforter, instead of <em>me<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Correction isn\u2019t <em>putting you down<\/em>. Correction <em>is just part of your process<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Correction isn\u2019t a bad grade. <em>Correction is proof you\u2019re my son<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you ever receive my correction, <em>and don\u2019t feel love, <strong>tell me<\/strong><\/em>. I won\u2019t withdraw correction, <em>but that is a sign healing still needs to happen<\/em>. I won\u2019t gaslight you into thinking correction wasn\u2019t actually correcting\u2014<em>it most certainly was!<\/em> When my rod and my staff don\u2019t comfort you, <em>it is because you are used to associating the rod and staff with <strong>something else<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What do you associate the rod and staff with?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Joshua:<\/em> \u2026Well, I think of it being \u201cyou dumb sheep, come back this way!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>God:<\/em> (shaking his head) Why is it paired with insults?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Joshua:<\/em> Well\u2026 I was told <em>grades help us measure intelligence<\/em>. A higher grade means I\u2019m smart. I always got A\u2019s\u2014well\u2014<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>God:<\/em> Stop right there. Why does <em>that<\/em> matter?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Joshua:<\/em> \u2026Kids who had bad grades went to the Principal\u2019s office. They weren\u2019t let out to play at recess. Getting bad grades, <em>getting a red card<\/em>, meant that I would be <em>taken away from my friends<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>God:<\/em> Here we are. <em>You view the rod and staff as <strong>separation<\/strong><\/em>. What did I do with the lost sheep?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Joshua:<\/em> \u2026You brought it back into the fold.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>God:<\/em> (nods) I didn\u2019t have a special \u201cSheep Separation Corner\u201d for all the <em>lost sheep<\/em>. If anything, <em>I gave them special attention<\/em>. Some correction is private, sure. <em>But that is to protect you, <strong>not to isolate you<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You saw some of the other kids <em>just vanish<\/em>. That doesn\u2019t mean the school was trying to destroy their friendships\u2014<em>as best they knew how, <strong>they were trying to help<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Correction isn\u2019t separation<\/em>. <strong><em>Shame separates<\/em><\/strong>. I free you from shame. <em>I correct<\/em>. Correction will help you have closer friendships\u2014<em>it won\u2019t remove them<\/em>. Unhealthy friendships will be addressed, <em>but correction does not destroy <strong>healthy friendships<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Correction isn\u2019t separation. I am not looking to push you out from the fold. No sheep gets \u201cbaaad grades\u201d and gets shoved out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your phone rang again. Is it the spam?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(I look)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Joshua:<\/em> Humorously enough, I got a response to the spam message at the exact same moment as I got a legitimate work message that will let me get paid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>God:<\/em> Spam will often come at the same time <em>as healthy <strong>correction<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That spam will attempt to make <em>my healing process<\/em> into <em>your justification<\/em>. <strong>But you were already justified<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Correction isn\u2019t separation. Healthy correction builds connection.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>God: You feel embarrassed. If I correct you, you imagine a little red pen making a little red checkmark beside whatever you said, whatever you thought, whatever you believed, with an associated \u201c-1\u201d, \u201c-2\u201d, or whatever other value deducting points from your total grade. The reality is, in school, that was the method. 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